You think you have that somebody to lean on. That somebody to talk to about everything. That somebody you could tell your secrets. Don’t let anybody in your life so easily. Don’t trust anybody easily. Keep shit to yourself. Yes, there’s not a problem with venting to someone or telling them this and that. But don’t blame them when everybody finds out. You knew that there was a possibility that it could spread. You knew that one day if you guys weren’t friends anymore or if you got into an argument that they could just put your shit on blast. You knew that eventually everybody will find out. So why bother telling somebody something you don’t want anybody else to know. My advice to you is to just keep it to yourself. There’s not a lot of people out there you could really depend on.